Knowing two friends with different lifestyles really teaches me about the meaning of life. We can make our own conclusion from our observation to their lifestyles and the more important is to take the lesson from them. Take their experience for our knowledge and ignore the bad things that they had done in their personal life. What we can do is just pray the best for them. Sometimes, I think it is better if I have two friends with different lifestyles because I can get the knowledge from their bad experience and the good knowledge from their other side that I can use for my life. We cannot judge people from who they are now, but it is better if we be their friends and try to go deep into their feeling and life.
Thesis Statement: There are what I can compare and the contrast about my two friends with different lifestyles. I want to make a comparison between their attitude, daily life activities, family background and their study background.
His name is Azreen. She is kind girl because she likes to give her friends a gift when she go travel to somewhere. But, she still had a bad attitudes such like she like to cheat her family, friends and teachers and she also likes stolen the things from his friends. She is a problem student because she always truancy and lazy to study hard for examinations. She just wants to enjoy his life. In addition on the point, his lifestyles are far from the path of religion. Why I said like that? This is because his daily activities are too social because she likes to go clubbing, she taking the alcoholic drinks, she always having a free sex with the guy she had never know much, she also doing the abortion and baby dumping effect from having free sex. Azreen lived at Kuala Lumpur. She is a metropolitan girl. She is an orphaned because her mother had passed away two years ago when she is at form five. She has a problem in his life which is lack of love from his parents. Azreen comes from a broken family. And she is the younger daughter in his family. Besides that, Azreen had an illness such like diabetes, heart problem and high blood pressure. Furthermore, his study background is just until the form five at Vocational College at Kuala Lumpur. We had known each other because we are studying at the same school.
Different than my closed friend that I had known at this university named Saqirah. She also had known as Qira. Qira has a good attitude such like she is a good daughter, a kind person, a good friend, she always like to help her friend who in a trouble and many more that are too different with Azreen attitudes. Besides that, Qira lifestyle was too different comparing with Azreen. She likes to stay at home with her family or friend, she had never having a free sex, she also had never go to clubbing or take an alcoholic drink and she will never do the abortion and baby dumping. She is a good person because she will just go out from home if she has a works to settle down and if she wants to hanging out, she will go with his friends who are female and not the boys. His lifestyles are closed with path of religion and it is totally different comparing with Azreen. My closed friend, Qira are comes from a good family background. She has a happy family where she had friendly parents and good siblings. Qira’s father was a teacher who teaches Quran to the villagers. Overall about family background of Qira is better comparing with Azreen’s family. Moreover, Qira have a good study background too. She got 7A’s in SPM examination and now she was studying at the same university with me. Both of us take the Human Resource Managements course.
If I want to make a comparison between these two friends lifestyle, I can conclude that they are totally different. One person is come from a broken family and one more are come from a happy family. The loves from family can be the big factors in teenagers’ life. If we comes from a good family, insya-Allah we can have a good lifestyles too. But if not, many problems the teenagers can create because they are lack of love from their family. The teenager like this really needs the good attention from their family. We cannot give the bad judge to them because we had never knows about their feeling and problems in life. In conclusion, everything are comes from the family and the principle of religion in life. No one else who will determine our successful but ourselves are responsible for it. But, how bad they are, they will always be my friends that I loved. As a friend, I cannot leave my friends who are in trouble and needs the attention. Beside family, friends play the important part in teenager life too. Both of this is really important for teenagers and I had already known about it because I feel like that way too.